It’s not as bad as you might think

It’s an opportunity to reflect on your life, your accomplishments (and foibles), your passions and your quirks. What you think people love about you or what you want this world to remember about you. It’s a tough assignment for sure, but why not start a working document that you can edit throughout your life? Perhaps something is missing.

You’ve always wanted to hike the Pacific Crest Trail, learn to play an instrument or buy a vintage car. Perhaps you write that you love dancing, but you rarely do it anymore. For many of us, there’s still time! Writing your Obituary helps you take stock of your life.

Your loved ones will thank you

Pulling together an Obituary after someone you love dies is no easy feat. Writing an Obituary is cathartic. It’s important to tell your loved one’s stories. Writing an Obituary helps the grieving process, but it’s a lot of work. You’ve got to track down a resume, find dates and other essential facts.

Ideally you should be thoughtful, eloquent and maybe even funny. All while you’re grieving and planning a funeral, memorial and preferably within 72 hours. If you are able to prepare a draft of your Obituary, it will help your family members (who are) in the early stages of grief.

You get the last word

Unless you’re a celebrity or a published author, the obituary really is the last word about you. Writing your (own) Obituary guarantees that you’re in control of what those words say.