It’s not as bad as you might think

This is a chance to reflect on your life—your achievements (and missteps), your passions, and your unique qualities. Think about what people appreciate about you or what you hope the world will remember. It’s a challenging task, no doubt, but why not begin a living document that you can update as you go? Maybe there’s something you haven’t considered yet.

You’ve always dreamed of hiking the Pacific Crest Trail, learning to play an instrument, or owning a vintage car. Maybe you’ve written about your love for dancing, but haven’t danced in a while. The good news is, there’s still time! Writing your obituary can help you reflect on your life and what truly matters to you.

Your loved ones will thank you

Creating an obituary for someone you love is never an easy task. While writing it can be a cathartic experience, it’s also a way to honor their memory by sharing their stories. Though it can aid in the grieving process, crafting an obituary requires a lot of effort. You’ll need to gather details like a resume, dates, and other key information to make it complete.

Ideally, you’d be able to express yourself with thoughtfulness, eloquence, and perhaps even a touch of humor—during a time of grief when you’re also navigating funeral and memorial planning, often within just 72 hours. If you’re able to prepare a draft of your obituary, it can provide valuable support to your loved ones, who may be in the early stages of their own grief.

You get the last word

Unless you’re a celebrity or a published author, your obituary is typically the final word about you. Writing your own obituary ensures that you have control over the message it conveys.